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So, it's December, and therefore (by my own personal laws, which will be enforced by all means necessary when I'm ruler of the known universe), it is no longer illegal to mention Xmas.

This seems like a good time to mention my xmas presents-buying policy; generally speaking, I don't buy presents for my friends, or indeed even my family most years. I also don't expect and am often somewhat embarrassed by xmas presents from my friends.

If I see something that screams out to belong to a particular person, then sure, I'll get it - but I'd very probably do that if it was July too. I don't like buying people random shit that they'll grin at for a few minutes and then throw in a cupboard or on a shelf, forgotten in a day or two... if I don't see the perfect gift for someone, I'll not bother. Likewise, I'd prefer not to be bought random stuff by my friends - I'm sure you can all think of better things to do with your money :) I'd really rather you spent it on yourself rather than waste it on getting me a present, unless you find something that you really want to give to me.

This doesn't apply to my gf of course, who must get me all the swag I demand. *cough*

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Date: 2007-12-02 10:04 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I wish I could train my friends and family ...

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Date: 2007-12-03 10:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] promiseclean.livejournal.com
My parents, brother & me decided to not give each other Xmas presents anymore years ago as we all are able to buy the stuff we really want ourselves. The weeks running up to the event suddenly got so much more relaxed and Christmas Eve stopped being about exchanging money.

Regarding friends, I pretty much operate on the same policy as you do. If I see something that's just perfect for someone I know (and like enough to spend money on presents for) I'll buy it at any time of the year.

Don't need a fake Christian holiday to be nice to people.

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Date: 2007-12-03 11:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kynetik.livejournal.com
Best. Post. Evar - exactly how I feel. I'd rather pick up things people like throughout the year than going 'Mmm... Better wait until Xmas' and then getting to Xmas and there only being shit gifts and none of the wonderfully chosen beautifully appropriateness.

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Date: 2007-12-03 12:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roodypoo69.livejournal.com
ok i'm another one thats going to say i'm the same :)

xx

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Date: 2007-12-06 08:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sevenhelz.livejournal.com
i've tried working this angle and it just gets me a load of abuse. clearly i have the wrong sort of friends.

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