Awww Denny... That really sucks. I don't claim to know the ins and outs of poly relationships - but I can see you're upset, and that I can offer you a cyber hug *hug* <- here, and some sympathy. I don't know the full story, only what I've read here, but it seems like some erratic behaviour and I hope it all gets sorted out and that you're not too hurt by it! xxxx